threesome

i had a threesome last year and it sickens me. I am still a "technical virgin" but i dont feel very innocent now. i worry that a decent guy wouldnt want a girl who has done something like this.sure, we all make mistakes and stuff, but i cant take it back, and i regret it, and i know that the kind of guy i'd want to marry one day would be a guy who doesnt approve of stuff like that.
Category Dirty Little Secret

advice from Guest2939695 | 04-20-2007 22:06 | E : 0 | S : 0
If I'm being honest, no red-blooded male would be in any way upset with you for being involved in this, in fact I think the reverse would be true and they would be interested in it more than anything else. Don't be so harsh on yourself.

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advice from Guest2903163 | 04-07-2008 17:07 | E : 0 | S : 0
Don't stress yourself out over this. Chances are, anyone you marry will have a thing or two in their closet, too. It's not that I would recommend keeping secrets, but if you are still a virgin and all, I don't see any reason you need to fully disclose this information. Sexuality and a bit of experimentation is totally normal and you didn't do anything wrong.
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advice from Guest2966818 | 04-23-2007 10:55 | E : 0 | S : 1
Unfortunately as a 'red-blooded male' I tend to agree with you in one sense, it's not something I'd be comfortable knowing you did before me BUT would probably like it if you tried it with me. I know that's selfish and somewhat contradictory but it's how I feel. Maybe you should just keep that little nut stored for the winter and one day, 4 or 5 years into marriage you tell him that for your anniversary you're going to give him an extra special treat. Just a thought.

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