two issues. helpp me.

i need help. i dont know what to do. i cut. all my frineds think i stopped but really i moved them. its been working. i want to stop casue i know it will hurt the people i love. ive been doing it for 3 almost four years. i just cant stop. it like noone understands only like one other person does casue she used to do it. she dosent know i still do though. but everone just yells & gets mad at me. & my boyfriend doesnt want me to hang out with the girl who understands that much cause shes bi & he thinks we have feeling for each other. im pretty sure i dont, im almost positive. i cant not hang out with her though. we all just hang out in a big group. everyone thinks she wants me. but im cool with it, i dont think she does. i dont see how it matters to everyone. i just need help.

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advice from Guest3132422 | 05-17-2007 01:01 | E : 0 | S : 0
i cant understand what is ur problem but if u need help.. im here.. email me at [MODERATED: sorry no email addresses in advice]

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advice from Guest3135895 | 05-17-2007 18:56 | E : 0 | S : 0
Listen you need help talk to a counselor or go to a clinic and get the help that you need. Your boyfriend shouldn't boss you around if he thinks you have feelings for your gf it just means there's no trust. U need help so go get it now instead of hurting yourself more
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advice from Guest3392594 | 07-16-2007 10:38 | E : 0 | S : 0
i understand. i've done it. i do it. 10 years since the 1st time. it feels like a release of pain and anger. i try to just picture it happening to keep from actually doing it. sometimes it helps. talk to a counselor about it. write down what feelings trigger it. and about your bf; he's upset that he doesn't understand and that girl does. and you may just feel close to her b/c she knows what you're going through. if he loves you, he'll try to be more empathetic. i hope things turn out ok for you.
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