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I am in love with a married man... my best friend... he knows and has even said outloud that I am the love of his life but that there is a reason he is married... I try to stick to the friendship as strickly friendship but yesterday we slipped again... half naked with tongues touching... i feel horrible, i feel like whore is written on my forehead whenever i am in front of his wife... its not her fault but i try to blame her... She isnt good enough... she is good enough... she just isnt me...it feels so right when it is happening, but it cant be right because it makes me feel like scum of earth, especially because they have children.... I need to disappear from the situation... but losing the friendship itself is a lot to sacrifice...
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advice from Guest3370470 | 07-13-2007 14:23 | E : 0 | S : 0
yikes - you may as well force the divorce and allow the kids to come to grips with their parents' relationship. Then, hopefully, the relationship will feel good desptite the fact it's no longer forbidden.
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advice from Guest3381206 | 07-14-2007 17:59 | E : 0 | S : 0
You just answered your own question.

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advice from Guest3538487 | 08-06-2007 10:48 | E : 0 | S : 0
I am in the same situation, I am married with childred, too. It is hard. but we HAVE to stop.
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