Wasted Life
QuickCode : whathaveidoneforme
I am 37 and don't have anything but shallow assets.
I have no kids and have never been married. I have a career that I don't enjoy but I don't have the courage to start over.
I have never travelled further than 300 miles.
I've been in love twice, but blew it both times because I thought I wasn't ready for a serious relationship.
I'm not particularly good at anything.
I feel like my friends and family have meaningful lives and all I have is toys and casual dates.
Category Disappointed
Submitted 12-15-2006 03:03
Visited 740 times. 65.00 Compelling Rating (rated 2 times) 88.00 Sincerity Rating (rated 5 times)
advice from Guest1626476 | 12-22-2006 19:36 | E : 2 | S : 0
Me too. Maybe we should start a club. (are they at least good toys? Mine are atv's)
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advice from Guest1749401 | 01-01-2007 19:35 | E : 2 | S : 0
No s*, there are three of us?
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advice from Guest1727970 | 01-01-2007 13:57 | E : 1 | S : 0
Change one little thing at a time. Don't scare yourself with this huge list of faults(you might be the only one who views yourself this way). Have a think about things take it slowly..
Sometimes the hardest thing in life is admitting our faults. You have done this... Hard bit over!
Take it step at a time. And I can only say this if you haven't ventured far from home I don't think love and life has presented it's self to your door step... Venture a little further it may just be the answer to some of the questions you are searching for...Good luck and do not be so hard on yourself, life can be hard enough.
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advice from Guest1751086 | 01-02-2007 00:37 | E : 1 | S : 0
Start small and work up, the cayman islands are nice.
Start a martial art.
Kids and marriage don't define you, you define you, live your life how you want. If you want kids and marriage, find a woman, get married, and have kids. If you want something else chase that. Do what makes you happy, you don't have to conform to the social norms.
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advice from Guest1620957 | 12-22-2006 11:17 | E : 0 | S : 0
I know I must sound like a broken record but throughout your life things happen, and the things that have happened for your haven't been terrific, but you you know what they say, a tradgey is a triumph in discuise. Just don't lose faith in what life can do for you, and things will happen, you can count on it.
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advice from Guest1363209 | 12-22-2006 14:11 | E : 0 | S : 0
You can start by traveling far away. Take some vacations to an exotic land like Asia or South America.
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advice from Guest1747109 | 01-01-2007 17:22 | E : 0 | S : 0
Go out, BUY and read: "The Artist's Way" by Julia Cameron, and do it. You'll be glad you did. You are right to be disappointed. What you project IS what your life reflects. Change what you project, and the directions will change. You will notice something that has been missing in your life...hope.
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advice from Guest2434669 | 02-26-2007 16:49 | E : 0 | S : 0
Find out what you are truly passionate about in life, and run with it.
You seem to have figured out your problems, and that's the first step in solving them. If you've realized you only thought you weren't ready for a serious relationship, chances are you are ready and only afraid.
No matter how scary the unknown might be, you have to get out there.
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advice from Guest2512791 | 03-07-2007 16:54 | E : 0 | S : 0
hhmm..i feel like i'm headed down the road.
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advice from Guest2513474 | 03-07-2007 18:42 | E : 0 | S : 0
make that four
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advice from Guest2821656 | 04-10-2007 16:37 | E : 0 | S : 0
Beleive in something. If you beleive than life will start. Im trying...
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advice from Guest3308430 | 06-30-2007 23:06 | E : 0 | S : 0
Count me in, make it five.
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advice from Guest827189 | 08-29-2007 08:17 | E : 0 | S : 0
I'm 15 years old and... I feel like I'm heading in the same direction
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advice from Guest1777497 | 01-03-2007 22:44 | E : 0 | S : 1
Start playing guitar.
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