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i am married, for 17 years now, two kids, very happy. yet i lust for other women. i haven't acted on it, yet - but there are three women now I know - who I know I could be successful with if I hit on them... a part of me wants to, very badly. i would like to enjoy sex with other women than my wife. but i am scared to try it.
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Submitted 05-06-2007 18:40
Visited 542 times. 90.00 Compelling Rating (rated 2 times) 90.00 Sincerity Rating (rated 2 times)
advice from Guest3009766 | 05-08-2007 17:19 | E : 0 | S : 0
Do not destroy your family by acting on this. Your wife knows you and will feel the betrayal.. talk to her work it out but don't cheat!!!
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advice from Guest3102317 | 05-08-2007 22:52 | E : 0 | S : 0
I believe the part of you that badly wants to do this is the "fleshly" nature that all of us are born with.It has it's desires and lusts, but can act contrary to any priciples or integrity we have developed using sound judgement. Lust and greed are brothers. The more you can get attitude can ruin you as a person. The fun might last temporarily, but I know you will regret it after you do it. You will lose respect for yourself without knowing it and you will become transparent to your wife and she will be teling you that the "gig" is up. I am married but have never done what your thinking about.Not because I haven't ever thought about it, but that my love for her is what keeps me coming home.Remember, love never looks out for self, but always seeks to love others first.Then, after you put her first, take a step back and ask yourself if you are still scared to try it.
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advice from Guest3105186 | 05-09-2007 15:52 | E : 0 | S : 0
I have cheated on my wife many times as long as no one finds out its fine...
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advice from Guest3107039 | 05-10-2007 07:02 | E : 0 | S : 0
Then why did you even get married. Don't cheat, it's stupid. Just think of how much that will hurt your children, since you say you are a "happy" family, I'm sure your kids think the same. Trust me. Don't!
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advice from Guest3106916 | 05-10-2007 07:33 | E : 0 | S : 0
Please don't try it. Don't do that to your wife!
Maybe you should talk her into having a threesome.
I am a woman and I would be thrilled if my man let me have a threesome.
If you havent acted on these feelins for other woman, you must be aprety good guy, so just don't go behind her back and ruin your marriage.
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advice from Guest3107692 | 05-10-2007 10:40 | E : 0 | S : 0
justifiably. All secrets come out eventually.
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advice from Guest3112756 | 05-11-2007 16:10 | E : 0 | S : 0
Dont do becuas the floods gates will open and it may release something unseen in her and cause her to do that to you
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