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ok, i like this guy. He's really older than me. 7 years older. I know its illegal but i really really like him. I may even LOVE him. We talk, he tells me he likes me too, and that if he was my age he'd be with me in a heartbeat. He gave me my first kiss. But I still have no clue where we stand because he has a pregnant girlfriend. He has never really said that he would leave her or if he wouldnt. Im conpletely confused. I want him soo bad, but I dont know if he just wants to screw around, or if he really does like me. Please give me some honest advice. I need it.
Category Romance

Submitted 02-06-2007 11:33
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advice from Guest821011 | 02-12-2007 17:55 | E : 1 | S : 0
In his world - it is probably obvious to him that he would not leave his pregnant girlfriend. You are on different wavelengths, that is why you are confused. At your age anything is possible, at his age he has committments that would be very painful and costly to divert from.
Being involved with someone that much older at your age is a bad idea. You may not realize it but you are rapidly developing and changing. If you are involved with someone your own age you will grow together; but he will not be capable of this at this point in his life.
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advice from Guest2278741 | 02-13-2007 09:14 | E : 0 | S : 0
If a guy cant give you 100% of his heart, guess what... he is just not that into you!
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advice from Guest2413079 | 02-24-2007 16:53 | E : 0 | S : 0
If he knocked up a girl, you shouldn't waste your time with him
You're still young, find a guy who you don't have to question his intentions
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advice from Guest2367039 | 02-25-2007 20:04 | E : 0 | S : 0
Don't do this to yourself. First of all, he is cheating on his current (pregnant!) girlfriend which is a sure sign he would do the same to you. Secondly, such an age difference is a VERY bad idea, especially when you are so young and still in an awkward stage between teen and adult. You need someone to share this experience with, which he cannot offer you. Finally, it seems you have no experience with love if he was your first kiss! Don't decide so quickly that this is love. Honestly he sounds immature and selfish to play with your heart like this. Dump the loser! He should be focusing on his impending fatherhood.
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advice from Guest2325506 | 02-14-2007 16:27 | E : 0 | S : 1
Love him.
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