Will I ever

I'm 20 years old.
I've never kissed a guy.
Not even come close.
I hate it when friends go on about boyfriends and so on, I just want to curl up in a big ball and cry at how pathetic I am. I don't even get anyone looking at me. None of my friends know or anyone else, I always skirt around the issue if it comes up.
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advice from Guest2363169 | 02-18-2007 21:50 | E : 3 | S : 0
I'm 21. I've never kissed a boy.

So... I enjoy life. I celebrate it! I work hard to be the best person I can be. When I meet somebody who is right for me, it will happen. Until then, there's SO MUCH to enjoy about life.

(as a side note, I have a few friends my age in the same situation.)
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advice from Guest2458455 | 03-01-2007 16:51 | E : 2 | S : 0
i'm 16 and was going out w my 1st boyfriend for 2 months. when i kissed him it didnt feel special. it was fun but meaningless. weve been over for 2 months now and he is the biggest jerk ever. i wished id never dated him or shared my 1st kiss w him. he ruined it. wait for the right guy. no use using up ur 1st kiss on a jerk.
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advice from Guest2510286 | 03-07-2007 11:23 | E : 2 | S : 0
im 16 and sometimes i almost wish i would not have ever kissed someone
now people call me a whore
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advice from Guest2898694 | 04-17-2007 16:09 | E : 2 | S : 0
Oh, darling, I know how you feel, at least sort of. I'm nearly 19 and I've kissed one boy... but that was because I was sad and desperate and he was there. I regret that relationship more than anything else in my short life. And now... I'm still alone, still watching all my friends and sisters have boys flirt with them and desire them... It's painful. But I'm not pathetic, and neither are you. Tell your friends... they'll understand. And if they don't, they're not worth being friends with.

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advice from Guest2371549 | 02-20-2007 11:59 | E : 1 | S : 0
Let me tell you, man or woman, the best way to attract someone is to stop looking. Just do your thing, enjoy life, laugh loud, play hard. Be a positive and secure person and people will come to you. Believe me, I get more attention post marriage than I ever did before I was even engaged. People are attracted to confidence. Get involved in the church, school, charity, whatever - enjoy it - you'll have fun and meet tons of new friends and who knows, mr. Right might just be one of them. Good Luck!
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advice from Guest2672193 | 03-25-2007 22:36 | E : 1 | S : 0
I'm almost 22 and never been kissed or dated. It's not like I'm hideous looking or anything. I do go to a Women's College though so it's not like I can meet a guy from class. Oh well were not destined to be alone or not kissed. It will happen sometime(soon I hope!) for us.
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advice from Guest2685226 | 03-27-2007 11:30 | E : 1 | S : 0
I would much rather kiss no one than kiss the wrong guy. A kiss(especially your first one) should be special, something to remember your whole life. I commend you for holding out for the right someone.
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advice from Guest2701919 | 03-29-2007 06:25 | E : 1 | S : 0
I know that feeling...Im 21 never been kissed...never had a real boy friend...I avoid the hows your love life question. Dont stress over it...youll find the right guy one day...dont let it get to you, it will happen one day..
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advice from Guest2715856 | 03-30-2007 20:33 | E : 1 | S : 0
Guest2363169 is on the right track. I would also add that living life to find that significant other is no way to live, its depressing. Just be you for you and forget about what your friends are doing. But if it really bothers you tell your friends how you feel and maybe they'll be more sensitive. But don't cheapen life cuz you don't have what they have, you've got potential for something better; the kind of love they all envy. Definitely wait for the right guy, and if he really is the right guy he'll know you're worth waiting for to.
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advice from Guest3031079 | 04-30-2007 10:44 | E : 1 | S : 0
This is something that is completely normal. I was 23! It is when you feel comfortable!

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advice from Guest821011 | 02-01-2007 01:05 | E : 0 | S : 0
Chances are very high that you will and soon.
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advice from Guest2354886 | 02-17-2007 20:47 | E : 0 | S : 0
aw, that's okay hun. just be confidant and true to yourself, and you'll find someone, and get that amazing kiss, and everything else that they talk about!
*hugs*
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advice from Guest2415476 | 02-24-2007 21:43 | E : 0 | S : 0
I am almost 23, and the only time I have ever kissed a girl is when I was drunk. I hate friends who are in relationships because I am not in the headspace for that yet. There will come a time, you will see
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advice from Guest2447973 | 02-28-2007 12:53 | E : 0 | S : 0
im 17 & i'm gay. i've never kissed a male or female cus i'm afraid. i'm sure our time will come soon. don't be afraid.
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advice from Guest2484147 | 03-04-2007 18:32 | E : 0 | S : 0
i was in the exact same situation as you. i was 20 when i got my first kiss. it was the more than what i had ever hoped to be. give it time, when it does happen it will be amazing
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advice from Guest2573332 | 03-14-2007 23:48 | E : 0 | S : 0
I'm 16 going on 17 and i've never been kissed. I suppose 16 is nothing, but it feels bad, most of my friends are/have been in relationships. I do so many extra things and i'm around guys all the time. I work, i play sport, i go to maths tutoring with heaps of guys. I've been to a couple of formals with this guy, but he turned out to be a jerk. I just don't get how some people can attract guys SO easily, yet i'm around them all the time and none of them seem to take ANY interest. I can wait though, because guys seem to take up so much time. And, i'm in yr 12 now so i'm hoping to find a guy at uni :) But good luck, and get involved with things, and be yourself.
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advice from Guest2712865 | 03-30-2007 11:50 | E : 0 | S : 0
it really dont matter if u kissed a boy or not. just know that that may mean that there is one kiss waiting on u from that one special guy that u will be with forever. dont let that put u down it is okay to not been able to kiss a guy. and dont worry about guys not looking at u. u need to have confidence inside of u. just go up to a guy and talk to them. that may be the problem. maybe u dont give them enough of your time. just think about it and see whats best for u. okay? dont let it bring u down. bye.
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advice from Guest2737396 | 04-02-2007 10:14 | E : 0 | S : 0
well i was seventeen and never been kissed and i had my first kiss with someone i actually didn't like.. desperate.. some time later, i met my boyfriend, he's one year older and i was his first kiss, i now wish i had never kissed the first guy. so don't get desperate, just wait till you find someone special.
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advice from Guest3278037 | 06-24-2007 00:48 | E : 0 | S : 0
dont feel bad. i have a friend who nvr kissed a guy until she was 21. but eventually she did kiss a guy and is now happily married to him and they have a beautiful child while many of her friends who were always more experienced are still lookin for mr. right. its nothin to be ashamed of and when u do find the right guy. it will make him feel good that hes the one u chose to kiss before ne other guy.
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advice from Guest854393 | 09-02-2007 19:48 | E : 0 | S : 0
Relax, just because you've never kissed a guy doesn't mean you aren't a great person.
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advice from Guest1064011 | 10-02-2007 04:34 | E : 0 | S : 0
My cousin is 18 and she had never kissed a guy, she has never had a boyfriend and she has never had a close guy-friend. So don't worry about it. When it happens, it will be special :)
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advice from Guest2712865 | 03-30-2007 11:46 | E : 1 | S : 2
It is not really worth it!! You need to go ou tand oarty and have fun with your life!! Guys can really bring you down!! Guys are just so sexually active and only want one thing from a girl!! Single is not a bad thing neither is not kissing!! try new things in life, don't waste it on BOYS!!!!!!!!!!!!
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