Will someone help

I dont know how to say this without sounds stupid, or very imaginative but,
Im only a 15 yr old girl who 'thinks' shes in love, witha boy who cnat love her as much as she dose him. What do i do. i cant live without him. i strive for him more and more every day.?/

Will someone help me?
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advice from Guest1805718 | 02-25-2008 02:09 | E : 0 | S : 0
You don't sound stupid. I was the same way at your age. Having been there before, the best advice I can give you is to just let it go. If he doesn't love you now, nothing you do will change his mind. You lived without him at some point, and you probably can live without him now. Don't make yourself miserable pining for someone who will never reciprocate your feelings. Go out and find someone who will love you!!
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advice from Guest2478149 | 02-27-2008 15:10 | E : 0 | S : 0
are you both actually an item, i mean have u both been intimate together, or close. i'm a 22 yr old guy and i didnt realise wat love was til i was 18 and it took for me to be hurt by and loose it to realise wat it actually was.
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advice from Guest2524165 | 03-03-2008 16:18 | E : 0 | S : 0
The love you feel at 15 is different than a love you would feel in your say twenties, I don't doubt that you love him, but it may not be the love that would have for someone you truly want to spend the rest of your life with. I think instead of focusing on him so much you should focus on yourself, the things you enjoy your hobbies, friends. Boys don't like girls who seem too interested, they like girls who have unique personalities and their own talents and abilities, if you focus on other relationships, say with you parents or friends, boys will become attracted because of these qualities. But say if/when he becomes interested in you make sure you stay true to yourself, don't drowned yourself in your feelings. If you start to date this boy then make sure you don't do 'things' that you aren't ready for. I made this mistake when I was 16. Set limits for yourself. But the key to this is, someone can't truly love you until you know how to love yourself, so enjoy being yourself whether or not this guy is into you. I think you will find it more rewarding. I hope this helps.
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advice from Guest2615993 | 03-24-2008 08:35 | E : 0 | S : 0
i know exactly how you feel cuz I'm @the same point now in my life. You sound anything but stupid girl. Try to grow out of it and if you can't then keep loving him until you grow out of it. It's hard when you can't lie without him and even harder if you can't express you feelings to him your friends or family. that's my problem so i just tell myself that he's happy the way he is and if I come into his life then I will just ruin it. It might make you cry but it works. And if you're against smoking then act like you see a pack of cigarettes in his back pocket. It totally worked for me when a boy pointed it out then i froze. Being a girl I wasn't sure if I should believe him then I just had to remember that he has a razor (cell phone) and I went right back to loving him hope this helps (probably won't)
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